There is a quote by Woody Allen that says, “80% of life is just showing up.” When it comes to college, this is a very applicable theory. If you show up for every class, take notes, ask questions, participate and stay awake you will make your life a lot easier and give yourself a much greater chance for success. In the vast majority of your classes, just doing this will get you an A or B.
It may seem easier to just skip class and get the notes from a friend or do the crossword puzzle during class and figure out the material before the next exam. The truth is that this isn’t the easy way to do things. It’s actually the hard way because you are going to have to figure everything out on your own at the last minute before the exam. If you understand material in class and are completely focused, it will save you a ton of study time later on in the semester.
Participation will go a far way in determining your success. Even if there isn’t an official participation grade in your class, professors will always show favoritism at the end of the semester for those who are active participants in class. Imagine how frustrated and disrespected professors feel when a student isn’t paying attention to them – do you think they are going to do any favors for those students at the end of the semester? You are already there in class, so why not raise your hand a few times and offer an opinion? Just wait for the questions that you can easily answer and fire away!
The Bottom Line: Show up, take notes, ask questions, participate and stay awake. It’s that simple. This will make your life much easier and allow you to spend more time with your friends and involved in activities.
•Social Media has overtaken porn as the #1 activity on the Web
•1 out of 8 couples married in the U.S. last year met via social media
•Years to Reach 50 millions Users: Radio (38 Years), TV (13 Years), Internet (4 Years), iPod (3 Years)… Facebook added 100 million users in less than 9 months…iPhone applications hit 1 billion in 9 months.
•If Facebook were a country it would be the world’s 4th largest between the United States and Indonesia
•1 in 6 higher education students are enrolled in online curriculum
•% of companies using LinkedIn as a primary tool to find employees…. 80%
•The fastest growing segment on Facebook is 55-65 year-old females
•The #2 largest search engine in the world is YouTube
•Wikipedia has over 13 million articles… some studies show it’s more accurate than Encyclopedia Britannica
•There are over 200,000,000 Blogs
•54% = Number of bloggers who post content or tweet daily
•People care more about how their social graph ranks products and services than how Google ranks them
•78% of consumers trust peer recommendations, Only 14% trust advertisements AND Only 18% of traditional TV campaigns generate a positive ROI
•In the near future we will no longer search for products and services they will find us via social media
•More than 1.5 million pieces of content (web links, news stories, blog posts, notes, photos, etc.) are shared on Facebook… daily.
•Successful companies in social media act more like Dale Carnegie and less like David Ogilvy Listening first, selling second.
(Stats above from Socialnomics – http://www.socialnomics.com)
If you are a young professional with the desire to become successful then you must understand the relationship between risk and achieving your goals. You will always be more successful if you find something you are passionate about and do whatever is necessary to accomplish your goal. The more that you are willing to risk, the greater the potential reward; if you are unable to put yourself out there and take risks at the appropriate times in life, then you will never truly know your potential for greatness. Every successful individual has taken risks in order to achieve his or her own vision of success, and you must be no different. Figure out what you want, do your best to understand all of the potential risks involved and determine whether you are prepared to handle the responsibilities and setbacks that may occur. You must also know the reward, which is achieving a goal of yours; understand the feeling of being successful and how it will change your life so that you can persevere through the inevitable difficulties.
Why is risk taking important?
Risk taking is crucial on the road to success because it challenges you and pushes you to a whole new level of motivation. People always work harder when something is on the line, both consciously and subconsciously. When nothing is at stake, there is no sense of urgency to make things happen. Risk taking gives you the ability to reach your true potential and as a young professional, nothing is more important than truly testing your abilities in order to see how successful you can be.
Risk vs. Reward
The larger the risk you take, the larger the potential reward. In any situation, ask yourself what the best possible outcome is and what the worst possible outcome is. If you have created a well defined vision of your successful future and truly know what will make you happy, then the best possible outcome is your dream becoming a reality. It’s what will make you feel satisfied and proud of your accomplishments. On the flip side, think about the worst possible outcome; chances are that no matter what the worst scenario possible is, it is still worth your attempt.
When you are scared of taking a risk, just think about that worst possible outcome – for me personally, I decided to write a book. I knew it would take over a thousand hours of time and effort. What’s the worst that could happen? People don’t like it? Nobody even buys it in the first place? I looked at the worst possible outcomes and realized they weren’t as bad as they might appear at first. If you feel as though the worst possible outcome is too significant to face, then you haven’t created a vision that is meaningful enough to you.
Failure and Adversity
Taking a risk and failing is better than never risking anything in life and simply taking the easy road every chance you get. Many successful people failed before they became successful. As a young professional, you have far less to risk than you will later in life. If you wait until you are 50 years old to take a major risk, you may need to factor in a spouse, children, mortgage payments, taking care of your parents and everything else that life has a way of throwing at you as you get older. The longer you wait, the harder it may be to even take a risk and if so, you are risking a lot more and have less time to learn from your mistakes. Have the courage to take your risks when you are young; it only gets harder as times goes along. Facing adversity and failing are important; they will make you stronger and smarter. People who have not been challenged, yet fail, become afraid of failure. They end up constantly taking the easy road and often miss out on better opportunities because they were too afraid of failure. Even when you take chances and fail, you are still better off than if you had never taken them at all. The important part is to learn from everything that you do in life and to be a better person because of those experiences – whether they’re successes or failures.
A Final Word About Risk
So many people fear the word risk and cringe when they hear it. The truth is, risk can be a great thing if you have created a clear vision for your future. Risk can motivate you and inspire you to do things you never thought possible. Once you have developed that awesome vision for yourself go out there and take a risk – you’ll never regret it!
Of all the traits that successful young professionals possess, the most common trait is that they simply work harder than anyone else around them. They have a larger desire to be the best at what they do and are committed to doing everything necessary to learn and to improve themselves. Having a strong work ethic is mandatory if you want to enjoy success in life. Whether you are in medical school, have a sales career or are pursuing an entrepreneurial venture, remember that everyone who is ultimately successful in life faced challenges early on and responded by working harder than the average young professional.
When I was writing my first book I had interviewed a lot of successful people, both young professionals and those well beyond, to try and find one common link among them all, possibly the secret to success. What did the most successful people do differently than everyone else? What types of careers gave them a better chance at earning a significant income? What the research revealed is that anyone can be successful at anything as long as the will to work hard is present. Those successful people all pounded the pavement, rolled up their sleeves and gave everything they had to whatever they were doing at the moment. That hard work gave them opportunities that the average person in their peer group would have never received. Some of them failed at three different things before reaching any level of success, but they never gave up their hard work ethics at any point.
If you are truly giving your best effort to everything that you do, it’s only a matter of time before better opportunities come your way; there is nothing more that people appreciate from a young person than showing the will to work as hard as possible. Successful people will always help out hard working and ambitious individuals who have the potential to achieve greatness.
There is a huge reluctance on the part of many young professionals to display a strong work ethic. One of the main reasons for this is a lack of vision and absence of seeing the long-term benefit of hard work. Once you understand the direct correlation between effort and success, you can then realize that things will only get better and this difficult phase early on in your life will have a very happy ending.
The bottom line is this – if you work exceptionally hard each and every day, you will give yourself an exponentially greater chance at immediate and long term success. Display a strong work ethic and give your absolute best to everything you are involved with!
As a college student, you have a tremendous amount of freedom. You are also independent and on your own, which means you need to take care of yourself. Challenge yourself to be truly independent and manage your entire life, without being reliant on anyone else. Some of the things you can do to be independent include:
• Paying your bills
• Managing your bank account
• Doing laundry
• Grocery shopping
• Cooking for yourself
• Cleaning up after yourself
• Creating and tracking a monthly budget
• Servicing your car
• Going to regular doctor checkups
• Building professional relationships
There are many others, but the basic idea is that you can handle everything on your own. Does this mean you can’t have your mom do your laundry over a break? Of course it doesn’t, but make sure you know how to do it and can take care of it yourself when your at school.
Also be an independent thinker; make the right decisions for yourself, and don’t do things because other people think you should. This doesn’t mean you should ignore everyone else, but at the end of the day you need to make up your own mind about what is best for you and what will make you the happiest.
The Bottom Line: Put yourself in a position where you don’t need to rely on anyone else to do anything for you. Be independent and capable of running every aspect of your life – you’ll be years ahead of many adults who still can’t manage a bank account or clean up after themselves!
The best thing you can do after the interview is to be “politely persistent”. Be aggressive in your follow up after the interview. It is better to be a bit on the annoying side than to not show enough interest. Send a quick email to everyone you met with to let each of them know you enjoyed the time you spent together and look forward to the next step. Don’t be annoying, but make sure to stay in contact regularly with each person who interviewed you. Employers
will appreciate your persistence.
It is important to note that no one of these individual tips will make or break your chances of securing the right opportunity. However, following all of them will separate you from your competition and give you a significant advantage.
By doing a few simple things during an interview, you will look better than the other people who walk through that door. Many young professionals have a bad “look”, have no confidence in themselves or are not prepared at all. Just follow these steps and you will be significantly more impressive than your competition.
Make sure to show up 10 minutes early for the interview and then make a great first impression. You will be well dressed and look sharp; if you are unsure about the dress code, then be safe and overdress. Be enthusiastic and confident from the start. Have a friendly demeanor with the receptionist; ask her how her day is going and professionally ask for the person you are meeting with. Do not sit down while you are waiting in the lobby; instead, stand tall, be confident and be ready to impress them. I promise none of the other people you are competing with for the opportunity will do this. When that person arrives, give him or her a firm handshake and say that it is a pleasure to meet. Let them know you have been looking forward to this opportunity.
Once the interview gets rolling, intelligently answer each question asked of you. Be brief and to the point. Don’t hesitate when answering. Simply be honest, confident and brief with your response. They will appreciate this strong communication. Your answers should also be well stated; for instance, “I will” sounds a million times better than “I think I can.” Go into this interview knowing you are the best candidate for the position and that you will be extremely successful if given the opportunity. Don’t be arrogant; just be confident in your abilities and skill set.
Throughout the interview, maintain a high level of enthusiasm. Market yourself effectively by bringing up past experiences that exemplify why you have the necessary skills or personality for the opportunity. Show the interviewer how valuable you will be to the company and what you bring to the table (such as selling lots of product, coming up with great marketing ideas or transitioning into a leadership role).
Make sure you are being yourself during the interview. Be comfortable and honest, there is no sense in pretending to be someone that you aren’t. Earn the opportunity based on the type of person you are, not on who you think the interviewer is looking for. If this truly is the best opportunity for you, then the interviewer will appreciate you for your personality. Ask every question you can possibly think of and remember you are interviewing the company just as much as the company is interviewing you. Virtually every other person they interview will be nervous, trying to act like someone they aren’t and feel uncomfortable. Keep in mind that you are there to determine if you want to be part of this organization, not to pretend to be someone else. Taking this approach will give you a unique attitude and a great deal of confidence.
Prior to any interview, the biggest thing you need to do is prepare. Research the company, their competition, read current articles on the company, read through as much information as you can about the specific opportunity you are interviewing for and talk to others who are familiar with the position or industry. Prepare a list of questions that will show your sincere interest in the opportunity and will reflect the effort you have put into your career search.
In regards to your resume, the biggest thing you must keep in mind is that every one of your past experiences needs to translate into a reason why you will be perfect for the opportunity for which you are interviewing. Explain how your past community involvement, leadership positions, internships and work experience will allow you to excel in this position. You need to be able to intelligently explain why serving as president of your fraternity developed your leadership traits, and gave you a high level of confidence, great organizational skills, and the perseverance to be successful in difficult situations. Be able to explain how volunteering in the community while being a full time student gave you the ability to balance a variety of responsibilities while being successful at each of them. Make sure that each of your past experiences is a huge part of who you are and who you will be. Be proud of your past successes and find reasons why each of those experiences will factor into your future successes.
Keep in mind that those who interview you may meet with 5-10 different people each day. You need to separate yourself from the others and impress the person interviewing you. Being prepared with detailed questions about the opportunity, organization and industry will make your discussion a lot more interesting than the conversations had with other interviewees.
In order to become a successful entrepreneur, you have to excel in a number of areas. As far as I see it, you really only have two options:
1. Become an expert in everything
2. Surround yourself with experts that will help you grow your business
Which of those sounds more appealing? Which one do you think will give you the time, energy, focus and resources necessary to grow your business? In order to become a successful entrepreneur the fastest and easiest way possible, you MUST surround yourself with quality individuals that have a high level of integrity, share in your vision for the business and are experts at what they do. Building this team around you will let you work on your business, not be an employee in your own business. Here are some of the amazing people that I have on my team:
- CPA
- Mentors
- Business Coach
- SEO Expert
- Social Networking Expert
- Family & Friends
- Printing Expert
- Referall Marketing Expert
- Marketing Coach
- Grammar & Editing Expert
- Professional Partners with High Levels of Integrity
- Any many others….
This doesn’t even include all of the people that I invest in through books, audio programs, home-study courses and seminars. Those individuals have also been instrumental in my business and don’t even know it! Surrounding yourself with these people will make your road to success and a business owner so much easier and exponentially increase your chances for success. Surrounding yourself with these people will also teach you incredible lessons and learning as much as possible is a huge key to your success as an entrepreneur.
Balancing everything that you are involved with as a college student sounds much easier than it actually is for many. It is common to think that balance involves two things: class and a social life. The truth is, you will more than likely need to balance most or all of the following:
• School Work
• Student Activities
• Physical Activity
• Staying in Touch with Friends/Family
• Earning an Income
• Leadership Positions
• Intramural Sports
• A Significant Other
• Internships
• Attending Campus Events
• Friends
• A Social Life
• Searching for Internships/Careers
• Attending Religious Services
College is the time to do as much as possible, and do it well, but you must have a system in place to balance it all. Make sure to prioritize what is most important and dedicate the appropriate amount of time to each of those areas.
The Bottom Line: It is easy to balance a social life and class, but as an ambitious student you will more than likely have a lot more than that on your plate. You can balance everything as long as you have a plan in place and manage your schedule efficiently.